Updated: Feb 11
Once Justin and I got married or maybe even engaged we kind of stopped celebrating Valentine’s Day. We both didn’t like the pressure of having to do something romantic on a specific day and, more recently Insta-worthy, to show each other and the world how much we love each other. Especially Justin, this is something that really irritates him and I must admit kind of queasy for me too!! After nearly 20 years of marriage, we have learned that the secret sauce is deciding to be committed, kind, respectful, supportive, vulnerable, and act with love at the centre of it all. Now don't get me wrong, we have our bad days, there are days when we might not see eye to eye, or the kids have put a strain on the relationship or an elderly parent has pissed one of us off but in general we always know that no matter what we are both so lucky to have each other.
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